I’m struggling with what I can say that I haven’t said before. So I think this is going to be short. When was the last time I wrote? I think a couple weeks ago. We’ve had five big nights since then. Three last weekend, two this. All were good; the first this weekend was the best ever. Three topics.
1. I want to go back to cunnilingus advice for a minute. I don’t feel like my last attempt (Tips for Licks) really covered it. There are motions I do, and vary infinitely, that are a huge part of it being successful. But an important part is paying attention to where she’s going, and following in some of the time, and leading it forward some of the time. Grab her tits now and again; hold her hips when she squirms to keep her where you can stay on her clit; other times let her go and make trying to stay in the saddle part of the fun (i.e. move your head/neck/body to keep your mouth on her clit). I think the best advice I can give is sell it. Just keep going and keep loving it.
2. I also want to talk about dosages. Reminder that we don’t smoke or vape. Only consume by mouth. I think this is better in some ways–it starts up slowly and gives us a moment to get into each other before our brains are completely fogged. It’s like the weed is for the sex, not the other way around. But the truth is, I haven’t smoked and had sex for many years, like at least 25 and probably 30, and back then when I was high I would just come in like 2 minutes. I had no control.
Anyway, about dosages. It seems like 12.5 to 25mg is what works. I don’t think we’ve ever knowingly done more, but when we first started it wasn’t medical marijuana so the dosages were approximate. She likes to do more than me (she’s on the high end of the range, at least 15-25, where I tend to max out at 15), and one thing I’ll do is vary her amounts to shake things up a bit. When she’s higher she is more likely to get into a state where she’s just coming over and over, without asking me to stop or even really acting like there’s anything else she would ever do. But if I did that every time I’m afraid I would get jaded to it. And when she’s less high she’s more able to be physical herself, and tune into me a little bit more, so that adds variety.
The negative about oral dosage is the onset time is really variable. With pills v. tinctures the pills tend to be faster, like as little as an hour and maybe up to two, while the tinctures are usually about two hours and maybe three. It depends on how much is in your stomach (alcohol makes it take even longer), for sure, but as far as we can tell the one thing it doesn’t depend on is how you take the tincture. People say if you put it under your tongue and let it dissolve it goes faster, but we’ve never seen that happen. I think that’s a folktale.
3. One scene I want to leave you with. On what ended up being our best night ever, for my first orgasm I couldn’t keep it in check, I pulled out while she finished, held on to that just-about-to-come feeling for about 5-6 seconds, realized it was winning, said “I can’t stop it,” and came all over her stomach. It was great. And before that she gave me her naughtiest blowjob ever. Anyway I managed to keep going after the first one and an hour later she was on her knees, facing away from me, me under her, doing her from behind with her beautiful hair falling all around her shoulders and back, her beautiful back arching, her arms akimbo, her sweet little ass quaking and shimmying, and I had this sense that I was this ancient hunter, having come upon a wild beast in the woods, a sex nymph who hadn’t seen a man in a thousand years and was going to suck him completely dry and ruin him for all mortal women. Oh my god, my wife is hot.
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