I have a great friend, truly a special person in my life, who works in digital marketing, business development, she’s a startup founder, that kind of thing. She was actually the first person other than my wife who knew about this blog, but I’ve never shared the URL with her and she hasn’t looked for it. I asked her when I first told her about it, a few years ago, if she had thoughts about how to promote it. She said “you should put it on Medium or Substack” but I didn’t want to because I love my domain name too much. Of course since then I’ve found out that you can connect your domain name to Substack, but I don’t know … I want it to be on my own site. I’m like that.
Well anyway, I talked to her again the other day and asked her again, and she said “you should put it on Substack” so I guess I’m going to. I registered there as substack.com/@cunnilinguist and on the 13th, I’ll post my first post, which was really from January 13th, 2021. I suppose in January 2027, I’ll have to skip this post? I don’t know. It’s not like I’m lying about it, I just don’t know if it belongs. Actually I kind of doubt I’m going to stick to this idea for very long, you know, the two sites will begin to diverge. We’ll see.
So, where were we? We had so much fucking over the holiday week. Probably 7 big nights in 10 days? It really tested my stamina, and in fact by the 2nd to last night I actually didn’t even come, I was too exhausted (I could have, earlier in the night, but we stretched things out too long). Then the last night, which was New Year’s Eve, we had champagne that turned out to be pretty good so I drank too much and fell asleep an hour into the fucking. Of course she came 100 times a night, as usual, so we had a lot of fun. She has always been more of a nightowl than me.
I think I mentioned that I wanted to reduce my THC intake, but I’m failing at that. I’m sure I need to take a bit of a break if I want to do that. It is really unpleasant not to get high when you want to have sex, so I don’t see myself just doing less; I’m going to wait until we have a weekend where we’re busy so I have maybe 1.5-2 weeks of a break, then start in with a lower dose. Maybe. How much do other people do? I have no idea but I’ve been doing 40mg and I used to do like 15 and get plenty high. Again, I can’t say for sure the numbers are comparable; I don’t know how regulated the measurements are in the first place, and in the second place, back when I did 15 it was in brownies we bought from a dealer, so that was an estimated number. They could easily have been stronger (it was supposedly ~100mg per ~40g brownie, and I would do like 7g and she would do 10ish).
Alright, this post is going mostly nowhere I’m afraid, so I have two things to add and then I’ll give up on it.
First, once before I mentioned massaging around her vulva, just outside of her labia. I did it again the other night while she was vibing her clit. She went so nuts it got too intense and she starting bucking like crazy then had to push by hand away. This time I think I was doing it a lot more firmly/deeply, not at first but eventually. I’ll try it again sometime but see if getting there more gradually works :-).
Second, I’ve been demeaning her a little bit, or maybe a lot, while I’ve been spanking/whipping her. Telling her she’s worthless, for example; calling her a naughty little girl, etc. If the timing is right it drives her nuts, I mean, in a good way. This is why I wanted to write that Misogyny post the other day. We are not at all like this IRL. In fact I’m really gentle–that’s what she likes about me, actually. So I’m thinking part of the excitement comes from everything being wrong. It’s not our character, nor is it roleplay. It’s just how we have sex, sometimes.
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