The Cunnilinguist: a blog about a married couple.

Sharing the details first, since my last post we 1) had a big night that was pretty good 2) went away for five nights and had sex eleven times 3) came back and had a GREAT big night. With some issues however. See below. We were traveling in a way or to a place where…

I can never remember from one post to the next what I talked about previously. I think in a recent post I mentioned that we’ve been doing a dominant/submissive thing. It’s gentle but it turns out she sees it differently anyway. She asks, “how can you be dominant when you’re doing everything I ask you…

I haven’t been posting for a while because I’m still not sure why I’m posting and that gets in the way of writing whatever comes to mind. For this brief installment I have two thoughts inspired by a gap of two weeks in which we had some regular sex but couldn’t get high and blow…

I don’t want to just tell stories about our late nights in, you know, I’m not here just to boast about how good I have it. So let’s just say I have it really good and though I haven’t posted for 11 days, we’ve had medical therapeutic sessions on four separate nights since then, including…

I read something interesting the other day, that Esther Perel, who’s like a thing when it comes to relationships and sex, says sex is not a thing you do but rather is a place you go. I like that. (I would like to pause here to note that I’m using WP’s block editor, which is…